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How to pet a dog

Yes, there are dos and don'ts for petting your own dog and dogs you meet on the street. When petting a dog, it is important to approach them in a calm and friendly manner. It is always advisable to ask other dog owners for permission before petting their dog. Not all dogs may be comfortable with strangers or in certain situations. Allow the dog to approach you if they show interest and seem comfortable. Avoid approaching a dog head-on or in a fast and intimidating manner. Similar to a cat introduction, offer a closed hand for sniffing. Extend your closed hand, palm down and allow the dog to sniff it. This helps them become familiar with your scent and presence. Once the dog has sniffed your hand and seems at ease, approach them gently from the side. Avoid reaching over their head or making sudden movements. Use slow and gentle strokes to pet the dog on areas they typically enjoy, such as the chest, shoulders or the sides. Pay attention to the dog's body language and respond accordingly. If the dog leans into your hand or seems relaxed, it indicates they are enjoying the interaction.


Some dogs may be sensitive to touch in certain areas, such as the ears or tail. It is best to avoid these areas until you have established trust with the dog. Sensitive areas on a dog's body may include the ears, tail, paws or abdomen. It is important to avoid these sensitive areas when petting a dog for a number of reasons, as indicated below:


Discomfort or pain: Dogs may have specific areas that are sensitive or painful due to injuries, medical conditions or past traumas. Touching these areas can cause discomfort or even pain for the dog, potentially leading to a negative reaction.


Fear or anxiety: Some dogs may have had negative experiences or fears associated with certain body parts being touched. Approaching these sensitive areas without the dog's trust and consent can trigger fear or anxiety, resulting in defensive or aggressive behaviour.


Respect personal boundaries: Just like humans, dogs have their personal boundaries. Respecting a dog's sensitive areas demonstrates respect for their personal space and helps build trust between you and the dog.


Building trust gradually: By avoiding sensitive areas initially, you can focus on building a positive and trusting relationship with the dog. Starting with gentle petting in areas they are comfortable with can help establish a foundation of trust, allowing the dog to feel more at ease and open to further interaction over time.


While some dogs may enjoy being touched in sensitive areas, it is essential to observe the individual dog's body language and response. If a dog appears uncomfortable or displays signs of stress or discomfort when a sensitive area is touched, it is crucial to stop and redirect your petting to areas they are more comfortable with.


Ultimately, being aware of a dog's sensitivity and respecting their boundaries helps create a positive and enjoyable experience for both you and the dog.



Watch for cues from the dog to understand if they are comfortable and enjoying the petting. Signs of a content dog include relaxed body posture, wagging tail or a soft gaze. If the dog shows signs of discomfort, such as moving away, tensing up or showing signs of aggression, stop petting and give them space. Just like people, dogs have their own preferences and boundaries. If the dog shows signs of wanting to end the interaction or if they move away, respect their boundaries and do not force the interaction.


Remember that each dog is unique and their reactions may vary. Always be gentle, respectful and attentive to the dog's body language. If you are unsure or unfamiliar with a dog it is best to ask the owner for guidance or seek their permission before attempting to pet the dog.

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